Online Trauma Therapy for Folks in the LGBTQIA+, polyamory, & kink communities Across Washington State.

You dream of having a thriving, fulfilling sex life and want to explore and experiment. The only problem is you don't quite know how to get there. Maybe you find it difficult to stay present once things get started, or perhaps you get performance anxiety and struggle to experience the kind of pleasure and connection you crave.

I can help you:

  • Develop mindfulness and body awareness skills that will help you tune in and be present with yourself

  • Become clear on your wants, needs, and preferences for your ideal sex life

  • Navigate the nuances of consent, negotiation, boundary-setting, and communication to become a better advocate for yourself in sexual encounters

  • Explore issues around sexual identity

  • Work through internalized sex negativity and sexual shame

  • Work through issues of sexual pain, difficulty with orgasms, and sexual functioning

  • Get support with sexuality changes that tend to come with gender transition

  • Heal from past sexual trauma that has created barriers to intimacy

I work with all different sexual orientations whether you're queer, bisexual, gay, pansexual, asexual, lesbian, or any other color of the rainbow. I am also unapologetically sex positive and sex worker affirming--sex work is work! No topic is too taboo or off limits. I support folks in all of their kinky identities, fetishes, and BDSM practices. For folks who are questioning issues of sexual identity and desire, I provide a warm, affirming space to discover yourself.