Gender

Online Trauma Therapy for Folks in the LGBTQIA+, polyamory, & kink communities Across Washington State.

Your gender identity is complex and changing. Maybe you transitioned long ago or have thoughts of transition but feel completely overwhelmed. You want to be able to open up about the complexities of your gender experience without feeling like you'll be seen as "not enough".

I can help you:

  • Tune in to all of the thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that come up around your gender

  • Mindfully notice what thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are your own and which ones are messages from the past or the culture

  • Hold the complexity of your gender, desire for safety, and belonging

  • Discover what your desires are for transition (or not) and navigate decisions around hormone replacement therapy, gender affirming surgeries, and gender expression

  • Listen to and trust yourself about whether you are "trans enough"

  • Learn to advocate for yourself

  • Connect to like-minded community

  • Heal from gender-based trauma, internalized oppression, and other trauma that gets in the way of you expressing your truest self

I work with all different gender identities whether you're transgender, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, intersex, questioning, cisgender and beyond. I also provide gender affirming surgery letters for folks who need them.